Some young people are finding the physical distance so challenging that they’re coming up with innovative solutions to come together while maintaining healthy social distance. “My friends and I went to a McDonald’s parking lot to meet up and we each stayed in our individual cars,” said Reagan, 20, in Lincoln, NE. In upstate New York, teens at Hilton High School celebrated one student's 16th birthday by driving by her house and honking. Elementary school teachers in Houston did a car caravan through students’ neighborhoods to give drive-by waves.
Meanwhile, indoor skate park, The Bay, broke out their mobile mini-skate ramp and took it on a tour of neighborhoods where kids had been cooped up all day. Don’t worry: the ramp was disinfected after each use and only kids quarantining together could skate the ramp at the same time (footage of the antics were shared on Instagram along with the hashtag, #cantcancelcommunity). Whether that effort is in line with C.D.C. guidelines or not is arguable, but you have to appreciate the sentiment that community gatherings can and will persist in some form or another.
Intimacy In The ‘After’
Part of our cognitive dissonance in this moment is that, in most times of crisis, we come together with our communities. Now, we must do the exact opposite. Gen Zs say that when all of this is over, they’ll be more appreciative of small daily IRL social interactions. “I didn’t realize how much I actually like going to class on campus. I even have a greater appreciation for teachers,” said Camryn, 20, in San Diego, CA. (Time will tell if this sentiment actually holds true.)
Beyond simple gratitude, Zs are starting to think about how this pandemic will change human interaction and intimacy en masse. “Will we still take for granted a hug with a friend, large social gatherings like a birthday party or baby shower?,” wondered Mathias, 20, in Lancaster, CA.
We could see this famously non-religious generation turning to faith to make sense of this new world. After all, what could make people question the purpose and existence of a greater power than a global pandemic of almost Biblical proportions? Will, 20, in La Mirada, CA told us that’s what he and his friends are theorizing. “This pandemic will lead to more reliance on God during circumstances which are out of our control,” he told us. Already, young folks tell us religion and spirituality is serving as a grounding force right now. “I have grown my relationship with my faith. It’s helped me through my emotions,” said Travianna, 16, in Kearney, NE. “In a year, we will look back at this time and finally be able to see how God was leading us through it all along,” said Hannah, 20, in Hawaii. “It will take time, but eventually the purpose of all these events will be revealed.”
Some Zs believe—or at least hope—this experience will inspire greater human connection. While they’re mostly too young to be part of the coronavirus baby boom (creating a new demographic, jokingly dubbed “coronials” by some epidemiologists), Zs may well lead a post-quarantine intimacy revolution. “I usually try to avoid being hurt by people emotionally,” said Christian, 16, in New Jersey. “But right now I wouldn’t mind taking that risk. After this whole pandemic is over, I’m never holding back from getting closer to people or allowing myself to be vulnerable. I need to connect ASAP.” He’s not the only one sounding a little desperate to connect right now.
William, 19, in Dallas, TX predicts that he’ll be taking more risks with matters of the heart. “I’ll ask the girl out that I like. Tell my family I love them more. Love every day in the moment,” he told us. “I hope we learn how to love others better. We’re all so scared to be ourselves around others, and now that that option has been taken away, we crave to be known,” said Michaela, 22, in Colombia, MO. Jada, 19, in Miami, FL worries that she’s already lost important friendships because of self-isolation: “I’m afraid that the relationships I built last semester won't be as strong. When I go back to school, I won’t put things off until ‘next time.’”